dard

stri ..janani..mahila..aurat..ladki..naam alag alag ho sakte hai par yeh sab ek hi varg ko sambodhit karte hai ..jiska naam hum sabhi janam se hi jante hai.
stri ka janam....jo dard se shuru hota hai aur uski mritiyu (dead) par ja kar kahatm hota hai...aaj is adhunik samaj mein jab hum stri ki azadi ki baat sochte hai aur us par vichar karte hai to pate hai ki log isko ek aandolan ka roop dene ki baat kahte hai ...par kya kabhi voh is baare mein bhi sochte hai ki akhir unhe kis ki aazadi chahiye ?? us stri ki ..jo aadhunik parivaar mein bhi rah kar aaj bhi azadi se ghum nahi sakti ..kyon ki uske aane jaane par parivaar(ya phir uske bhai,pati) ki nazar rahti hai. YA phir unhe apne hi vicharo ki azadi chahiye ..jo mahila aandolan mein to stri ka samarthak hota hai aur parde ke piche uska shoshak !!
agar mere hisaab se dekha jaaye to ghar se shoshan shuru hota hai ..."voh ladka hai ..apni man marzi kar sakta hai" , "nahiiiii...college se sidha ghar aao aur kahi jana ho to ghar par ph karo"..aur kuch nahi to main agar kahu to rasoi(kitchen) bhi ek jariya hai ...jaha yeh janani apna mahatv khud gira leti hai ....sabko ache ache thali mein khana de kar phir khud hi kisi bhi thali YA katore mein khud lena !! kyon ??
ladki hai ....padha likha diya ....career banaana chahti hai to chalo usko apna career bhi banane do par jab shadi ki baat aaye !!!! nahi .....hum tumhare parents hai ....hum tumahri shadi ke liye ladka dekhenge aur ladki kahi kisi ke sath judi hui hai to anjaam yeh hoga ki ya to voh us se alag ho jaye nahi to parivaar se virodh kare !! agar ladke se alag hui to aaj ke samay mein kya ho sakta hai ..kehna nahi hoga .MMS ....jo jaydatar aise hi cases ke hote hai.aur apne parivar se virodh kare to ladki par ilzaam laga diya jata hai.
garib tabke ki baat kare to kahani aur bhi bad se badtar hai .nahi ....sirf baaton se kuch baat nahi banti ...kuch karne ke liye kadam uthana zaroori hai ...mardo( aur is mard ki paribhasha mein sare ladke,bhai,purush,pati aate hai) ko apni soch badalni hogi ....jisne janam diya hai usko uske adhikaar bhi do ....jine ka ...apni soch ko aage rakhne ka .....aur sabse pahle uske liye ek achi sikhsha (education) ..jo usko kabil insaan banayegi..